Reversal News Desk,
The country’s popular singer and actor Tahsan Khan has married. The bride is Roza Ahmed. She is a makeover artist by profession. After that, there has been discussion and criticism about him almost everywhere for the past few days. The criticism has not stopped even about his ex-wife Rafiat Rashid Mithila.
In the meantime, a post written about Mithila has spread on social media. In which various achievements in Mithila’s personal life outside of acting have been raised, which are unknown to many. The post has been shared by actress Runa Khan, Archita Sparshiya, Shyamal Maula and many others.
The post that spread on social media is reproduced here for the readers in full –
The girl you thought was a market girl in Bangladesh is one of the leaders of a world-famous NGO, BRAC. The girl you abused for having a bad character works with mothers and children in 11 countries around the world. The girl whose picture you still react with “ha ha” has two master’s degrees, one from Dhaka University and the other from BRAC University. The actress you have been criticizing for the past five years is getting her PhD degree in these five years. She will have her PhD degree next year. But what have you, who criticized, achieved by looking at their own faces?
99% of the people of this country do not know that BRAC is a first-class NGO in the world. The people of the country do not know that BRAC was established in war-torn Bangladesh in 1972 under the leadership of Fazle Hossain Abed and is working with a good reputation all over the world today. We Bengalis have not been able to recognize the jewel of our country well. Just go and see the refugees from South Sudan who have gone to Uganda, and you will understand at least a little the situation of the 10 million refugees from Bangladesh who were in India in 1971. Even though they are two Bengalis and one language, you can understand how far Kolkata, India, has advanced in terms of thinking compared to us by looking at the thoughts and feelings of their city and people.
We know a girl who has come into acting as an actress. But we forget that people have a personal life outside of acting. We forget that a girl is someone’s child, someone’s mother, someone’s sister, someone’s wife outside of acting. Can you tell me which boy and girl doesn’t fall in love while studying in school, college and university? If falling in love is a crime, then all the millions of young men and women in this country are criminals. At a certain age, people get married. There can be minor insults and misunderstandings in almost every family. Three women get divorced every hour in Dhaka city. This does not mean that all women have bad characters and all men are saints. In some cases, even a sweet family can break up due to misunderstandings. In this case, thinking that it is only the girl’s fault and not the boy’s fault is nothing but foolishness. Leaving your husband’s house with a one-year-old daughter and preparing yourself for a PhD degree again, acting and handling children and working in 11 countries along with that is not as easy as you think.
You must have seen countless beautiful girls around you. Some of them are beautiful but they are not talented students. Again, if a beautiful person is talented, she cannot sing. Even if she can sing, many cannot dance. But when a girl is a good employee, a talented student, a singer and a heroine and besides that she can also draw pictures, then you have to understand that this girl came to this world with the heavenly beauty of creation. She was not born in this world just to eat and sleep, she was born in this world to write her name in golden letters.
I am talking about Mithila. She has her own story behind her Masters from Dhaka University and working in folk theatre since childhood to become an established actress today. We only see the person in her acting but not the person inside her. Marilyn Monroe had a thousand lovers but she is still Monroe in our eyes. Salman Khan is not married yet but Shahrukh Khan married a girl who is a year older than her. While thinking about all this, we forget that Shahrukh and Salman are human beings like us at the end of the day. Every human being has their own world. We should all work hard to prove our worth and make ourselves like them by putting these people in the seat of our respect.
My old lady can also dance, sing and is an incredibly talented student. She also has a personal life. A girl who is not talented, who cannot sing, cannot dance or who is crippled also has a personal life. Criticism of a person’s personal life is possible only for the uncivilized and the ignorant. But by showing that criticism, Mithila established herself in the world right away. When Mithila secured first place among BRAC’s Masters students, she was a mother. She had a one-year-old daughter with her. Yet, by coming first in the exam, she proved that Mithila was born to win. Mithila does not earn her living by acting, she is also a high-ranking official of BRAC who is known to countless people in at least 11 countries around the world. Acting is her hobby.
Sharing Alfred Nobel’s writing, Runa Khan wrote, ‘I have been thinking of writing these words for a long time. It did not happen, today I could not contain the desire to post after seeing the words of this well-organized writing! Joytu Mithila.
